Firstly I would like to make it clear that I am not some sort of hussy or sexual predator that needs a different man every night. I am sensible, I give utmost consideration to my personal safety but if I see a guy who pushes the right buttons then what’s wrong with seeking physical gratification.

Let me give you an example, last week I was out of town with some colleagues from work. It was warm, the atmosphere was buzzing and the music induced an almost mesmeric high.

I was on fire, I looked great my long legs were tanned and on show in the smallest of skirts. It was a normal night out in Newcastle and my two girl friends and I were the centre of attention..we were fighting them off. The night went on at pace, I wasn’t drunk or on the prowl but one cute guy did catch my attention standing in a crowd with his mates.

It wasn’t long until I caught his eye and the flirting game began, there was chemistry and we hadn’t even said a word to each other yet. Well to cut a long story short he was fantastic we laughed for three hours and at the end of the night it was inevitable….the boy was mine and he was coming back to my hotel.

The rest of the night was great he was a lot of fun but all good things eventually come to an end. My alarm clock went off at 6a.m, I was in a good mood, so I’ll let him sleep for another hour after which it would be time for him to go. An hour later I woke him up, called him a cab, thanked him for a wonderful night and sent him on his way. It was another day in my busy life and I had a meeting at 9am. Good memories, great sex, a one night stand but who cares, I like no strings dating

I am not ashamed or embarrassed; women are empowered and are becoming the stronger sex. Like men we have a wild side, which we would like to, explore and let loose before marriage, husband and kids begin to take up our time. There are no rules that say that you can’t have and enjoy casual dating or one night stands. It’s not something that was invented just for men.

My decision not to seek a long and meaningful relationship is based on a combination of freedom that I learnt at university and a job that does not need any emotional distractions. I am 22 and love life, I do not need to sleep with a new man every night but if the desire is there what it wrong with two consenting adults having a bit of fun.

You don’t have to be too old to remember the days when men were empowered to be the relationship leaders; invariably it was they who initiated the first date….and how hard was it!! Having plucked up the courage to approach the girl of your dreams you were faced with the possibility that you would crash and burn, not surprising then that a successful first date would lead to a second and a long protracted romance.

So what has changed and why is there are growing trend towards one night stands and f-buddies.

One aspect that can not be overlooked is the ease of communication. Today you have social media tools in abundance to aid your quest for fun. These adult dating sites allow you to find exactly what you are looking for and more to the point find out exactly what is on offer. If you are looking for no strings attached sex then a profile that reflects this view will very quickly solicit numerous men/women willing to oblige.

Another major factor in the sexual evolution is the attitude of females. Never have you ladies been more confident, you know what you want and you know how to get it. In addition females today occupy increasingly more important positions in the work place and as such steady relationships seem to be rare.

So is it wrong for two strangers to have sex on the first date and never see each other again? I suppose the answer to this is who are you or I to judge. If two consenting adults want to meet up for uncomplicated sex then why not, I for one have been on numerous dates which never got anywhere near sex and later wished I had not bothered.

We often hear the saying is that life is too short and we should therefore cherish our youth…if this involves a series of one night stands or no strings dating then all I will say is enjoy yourself and be safe.

Fuck buddies let you get all the sex you want without the baggage and responsibility of full-on affairs. If you are interested in finding a “buddy” but still confused? Then you need to read this guide. We’ll tell you everything you need to know in navigating the casual sex dating world.

What exactly is a “F Buddy”?

Sexual partners who do each other on a regular basis but do not have the usual emotional attachments of the traditional boyfriend/girlfriend set up are f buddies.  To have a F Buddy means to have someone you can use purely for sexual gratification, usually a booty call or quickie. This “no attachment” system is usually an open affair – that is, each partner is allowed to seek relationships with others.

Should you get an F Buddy?

Only you can tell whether or not this type of relationship is right for you. Being (or not being) an F Buddy is a very personal decision. Among the great things about no strings dating is that you can enjoy the thrill of having a passionate fling with a person that you might not normally date, but would like to “try.”  By being open to becoming an F Buddy, you can hook up with someone with whom you have nothing in common except incredible sexual chemistry. Because having an F Buddy can often feel like having an illicit affair, you get to feel a little naughty, play out your fantasies, and cut loose from your usual world.

What happens when the passion fizzles out?

Like anything disposable, your F Buddy may soon become boring in your eyes. Sex becomes routine, and you want out. To avoid any complications towards the end of this short, no-strings affair, set your limits from the very start. Be clear about what you want, what you can provide, and what you cannot provide. Talk openly about your expectations to avoid misunderstandings. Many f buddies stay friends. Some even become f buddies for life. It really depends on your perspective. If you feel any kind of weirdness, don’t force the friendship. You have enough friends, anyway.

When is it time to get out?

The whole point of having a F Buddy is to have fun. When the relationship starts to make you feel used or abused, it’s time to say goodbye.  Sadly, many people who go into no-strings dating are selfish and immature. Once you see signs of this on your partner, get out the door. Put an end to the affair, no matter how good the sex is.

What if you fall in love?

The biggest flaw of the F Buddy system is that it involves two human beings who have feelings – and in anything that involves the exchange of bodily fluids, emotions play a part. What if only you fall in love with your F Buddy but he/she does not reciprocate? The best thing to do is to be honest about it. For all you know, your partner might be feeling something for you, too. And if there’s really nothing there, at least you can move on. Never deny your feelings, or you will just feel jealous and betrayed when you see your F Buddy with someone else.

Staying safe

There’s nothing safer than a loving, monogamous relationship, but if this type of set up is too boring for you, then follow your instincts and get a F Buddy. Just be sure that you protect yourself not just from the potential emotional pain that an abrupt end to the relationship might cause, but also from sexually transmittable diseases that may be passed on to you.
Condoms are still the best form of protection from almost all STD’s. Insist on using one. Keep in mind that when you have sex with your F Buddy, you are also – technically – having sex with all his/her other partners, and that these other partners might be carrying diseases. A condom is not 100% full proof, but is one of the best defences against deadly conditions like AIDS, to name a few.

Where do I find a F Buddy?

You can probably meet a willing F Buddy through friends of friends, but if you want to get out of your usual circle, go on line. Dating sites like Affairs and Dating.co.uk provide sections for people who are looking for casual dating in particular. Here you’ll meet many like-minded individuals who want no-strings dating, just like you.

I am now 25 and can honestly say that I have made up for a late start. I love the challenge, the chase is the best part but I have rules. There are too many women in the world to get tied down I want sex, simple no strings dating. One night stands are perfect although I have been known to go back for more if she was really good. Which leads me to the reason for the letter, I have tried a number of dating agencies but this is the first that allows members to vent their thoughts. Internet dating for me is the best and the reason is simple….you can find exactly what you are looking for and members are more than happy to describe what they want. No strings, no complications no long term relationships. A few jokes and couple of emails, then sex!!!

Thank you, the internet is a wonderful place, Give me more no strings dating.