For John sex was all about numbers, he was not interested in long term relationships and regular sex with the same person, he wanted risk with no strings and he did not care who they were. The more illicit encounters the better, the thrill to him was the risk of getting caught whether it be by a husband, boyfriend or even by the fact that he had chosen a public place for his big performance.

To his friends John was great to be around but at the same time an anathema! When you were with John there were always plenty of girls and normally enough to go around but John had no morals and this led to major fall outs with indiscretions towards some of the girl friends of his best mates.

John was an addict and like all addicts he needed to feed his habit. Weekends were fine there were always willing girls to fall under his advances. Week days were different and as a result of an incident at work where a colleague had complained about being pestered he was given an official warning. The warning in itself John could live with but what this also resulted in was that all his female colleagues ignoring him for his Lotharios ways.

John was a broken man he was going cold turkey, sex was on his mind 24/7 and now he could not even flirt………until one Wednesday a young temptress arrived in the office for her first day. Within an hour he was able to get her attention two hours later they were united walking out of the office for the last time with the prospects of looking for a new job.

The sack did not come as a surprise to either of them being caught by the bosses wife having sex on the conference table was never going to go down too well but what John had not anticipated was learning that his latest conquest was every bit his match….Janet was a nymphomaniac who had been dismissed from her last job for similar sexual indiscretion……

One new member to take advantage of our new login facility is Marie. Her profile sates “I’m a normal girl looking for a good time. I want a guy who is sexy and is always up for a laugh. I would say i have a higher than average libido and love to get raunchy at almost anytime or place. I enjoy having sex in odd places and am looking for a man who seeks the same spark when it comes to sex. Any sexy built guys drop me a line and i’d be happy to have some fun with you seeya around guys…

Adult dating whether it is outside a marriage or where parties in a relationship decide that the grass is greener is not a new phenomenon. Since the dawn of time adults have looked to spice up their lives with a little bit of extra on the side. Now let me make one thing clear I am not here to endorse such behaviour or is it something that I find necessary but I like to think that I am a realist and what will be will be!!

Affairsdating is risky it can even be a little bit dangerous but if two adults are consenting then surely society should not pass judgement. The internet today provides a perfect environment for individuals to hook up and have fun. The mechanism of making contact is safe and allows individuals to share their desires with others. This must be the way forward, how many dates end up with one person wanting more than the other is prepared to give so pre contact must be the solution.

So to all those that complained my comment is thus…you look after your life and let others get on with theirs.

Hi my name is Peta, Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked too but if you press the wrong button you’ll be disconnected! Funny, witty and very damn pretty, so now you now me, how about getting to know you? I’m here basically to see what the rest of the male species has to offer, and I’m the best person to snap up a good bargain. Not to say that I myself come anywhere near cheap, time and effort needs to be invested in order to gain you the best rate of interest.
So, putting your best and most brave bouts of banter forward, and you never know, your luck might be in for this red hot game of racy roulette!

Dating for singles

Internet dating can really speed up your search for “the one.” Thanks to the internet, you no longer have to spend money on too many “first dates” that do not work out. Using an adult dating website, you can meet new people, screen potential dates based on how their profiles match what you are looking for, and then arrange actual dates only after you are sure you want to meet in person.

Dating for married people

Even married people can date around; in fact, a little fling can save a marriage. You see, almost all marriages start out the same way: The bride looks breathtaking in white, the groom looks stunning in his tuxedo and sweet music fills the air all around. Indeed, many of us have enjoyed the butterflies and romance at least once in our lives. Unfortunately, this phase typically lasts only while you were dating until early in your marriage. After you have spent years and years with your spouse, you start to wonder: What happens after all the champagne, the moonlight dancing and the roses?

Unfortunately, you will get your answer soon enough. Gradually, your wife will no longer shave her legs and she will probably pack on a few pounds. Or perhaps your husband will start gaining a beer gut and passing gas in front of you. These are the ugly truths that we never thought about when we were just dating.

An escape

If you feel like your marriage is suffering from this monotony then why not get back to the dating field again? In today’s technological world, all you need to create your escape is the right motivation, internet connection and a talent of being discreet. On-line dating allows lonely singles and lonelier married individuals to avoid the risk of late-night phone calls. You can now ignite a spark with a new special someone through the privacy of an on-line dating website.

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So what is this phenomenon all about and why use an on-line internet dating site like affairs and dating. Well you don’t need me to insult your intelligence defining the words adult and dating but what do people using these sites expect to find and why use an internet adult dating site instead of the traditional methods: Boy sees girl, girl notices boy, they both exchange smiles one plucks up the courage to start a conversation and before long wine, roses and nights of plentiful lust or if you are really lucky straight to the sex. So we are all familiar with our inherited mating patterns so why now in this age of technology are we using our fingers to search for fun on internet adult dating sites.

Adult dating sites offer the user certain benefits when compared to other forms of dating. For starters one of the major attractions must be the anonymity. The ability to take time composing a person profile, the ability to post an image highlighting your most attractive features (or someone else’s!!); and the ability to search and flirt with others members in your time without the fear of rejection. Compare this with traditional forms of adult dating: having dressed to impress and consumed copious amounts of alcohol to give you strength you finally see that perfect date across the crowded bar. You catch her eye, she politely smiles back…….do you, can you approach the person of your dreams, what if they say no, imagine how you will feel? Three hours later and a few more drinks you go home alone having spent all your money and no date…was it worth it.

Stick to Adult Dating sites!

So what does free sex mean, what are you looking for and how easy is it to find it?

If you look at the average adult dating site today the main motivation to join is to find likeminded people who are not afraid of confessing in intimate details what they are looking for. Their drive is predominately sex and plenty of it but not necessarily with the same person what they are seeking is uncomplicated sex with no strings attached. Having made the assumption that we can find sex on these adult sites is it actually Free Sex.

To answer this our first consideration has to be the alternatives that do involve paying for sex and we all know what this is. In The Secret Diary’s Of A Call Girl, Billy Piper plays a high class prostitute satisfying the needs of men from all back grounds. Now I am sure that some men have experiences of drunken stag do’s in Amsterdam, some have may be able to recount tails similar to Belle de jure…..the rest will be a fantasy. One thing is certain this is not free sex quite the opposite I am sure it can turn out rather expensive.

So a call girl is not an option so where else can I look for free sex..well I could adopt the traditional approach to dating and seek encounters in pubs, clubs etc but here is the catch. I for one never had the type of face where a beautiful girl would drag be off for unbridled passion. I have always had to work for it and that normally meant at the very least providing copious amounts of alcohol or an expensive meal, hardly free sex.

So we have gone full circle back to the adult dating sites and I can confirm that they work. I have had nights where I have met up with girls first for a few drinks, I have even spent quite a bit of money on a couple of dates but I have also had my share of free sex.

Values may have changed for some for better of for worse but in my experience consenting adults know what they want and some do not want the complications of relationships. The transaction is free agreed by both parties and long may it continue